ASIAN MENTAL HEALTH BLOG
Writing on Asian identity, family dynamics, and the work of becoming yourself.
Honest, specific, and written for 1.5 and 2nd generation Asian immigrants who are done with generic advice.
I write about the things my clients bring into sessions. The guilt that surfaces when you try to want something different. The anger that has been building for years without a name. The family dynamics that shaped you before you knew they were shaping you.
The topics are specific because the experiences are specific. If you have ever felt like mainstream mental health content was not really written for you, you are probably right. This is.
How to Let Go of Perfectionism and Enjoy Reading Again
Struggling to read without feeling pressure to finish everything perfectly? This post breaks down how perfectionism kills motivation and how to build a more flexible, enjoyable relationship with reading.
How Perfectionism and Fear Make You Productive but Not Fulfilled
You can be productive, efficient, and still feel unfulfilled. This explores how perfectionism, fear, and cultural pressure can keep you busy but disconnected from what actually matters.
What Sports Reveal About Your Psychology: Ego, Codependency, and Fear of Failure in Performance
Sports often reveal psychological patterns we do not notice in daily life. This article explores how fear of being selfish, codependent tendencies, and avoidance of failure can show up in competitive play and reflect deeper relational patterns.