ASIAN MENTAL HEALTH BLOG
Writing on Asian identity, family dynamics, and the work of becoming yourself.
Honest, specific, and written for 1.5 and 2nd generation Asian immigrants who are done with generic advice.
I write about the things my clients bring into sessions. The guilt that surfaces when you try to want something different. The anger that has been building for years without a name. The family dynamics that shaped you before you knew they were shaping you.
The topics are specific because the experiences are specific. If you have ever felt like mainstream mental health content was not really written for you, you are probably right. This is.
How to Cope with Loneliness: 8 Small Ways to Feel More Connected and Less Alone
Loneliness is not just about being alone. You can have people around you and still feel disconnected. These are the small practices that helped me build more connection, meaning, and comfort in my everyday life.
Why Good Therapists Do Their Own Healing Work: What Clients Should Know About Therapy
Many people worry about whether their therapist is “qualified enough” or emotionally stable enough to help them. This post explores why good therapists actively engage in their own healing work, how this supports client care, and why therapy is ultimately a human relational process rather than a one sided expert dynamic.
Dating as an Asian Man: Racism, Stereotypes, and the Pressure to Prove Yourself
Many Asian men navigate dating while carrying stereotypes, racial biases, and cultural expectations that can affect confidence, identity, and relationships. In this podcast conversation, I explore the Asian male dating experience, the impact of social conditioning, and how we can examine the biases that shape attraction and connection.