ASIAN MENTAL HEALTH BLOG
Writing on Asian identity, family dynamics, and the work of becoming yourself.
Honest, specific, and written for 1.5 and 2nd generation Asian immigrants who are done with generic advice.
I write about the things my clients bring into sessions. The guilt that surfaces when you try to want something different. The anger that has been building for years without a name. The family dynamics that shaped you before you knew they were shaping you.
The topics are specific because the experiences are specific. If you have ever felt like mainstream mental health content was not really written for you, you are probably right. This is.
4 Warning Signs Your Therapist Doesn’t Understand Your Culture
Not all therapy is culturally safe, and misunderstandings about identity can significantly impact trust, safety, and outcomes in treatment. This article outlines common signs that a therapist may be relying on stereotypes, oversimplified cultural assumptions, or deficit-based thinking when working with Asian clients. It also explores the complexity of cultural identity and why true cultural competence requires curiosity, flexibility, and an understanding of systemic forces rather than assumptions or generalizations.
Why Good Therapists Do Their Own Healing Work: What Clients Should Know About Therapy
Many people worry about whether their therapist is “qualified enough” or emotionally stable enough to help them. This post explores why good therapists actively engage in their own healing work, how this supports client care, and why therapy is ultimately a human relational process rather than a one sided expert dynamic.
How Therapy Actually Works And Why You Shouldn’t “Just Trust the Process”
“Trust the process” can feel vague and frustrating. This breaks down how therapy actually works so you can build real trust based on understanding, not blind faith.
Why Authenticity Matters in Therapy And How It Helps You Open Up
A behind-the-scenes look at how authenticity in therapy builds trust, deepens conversations, and helps clients feel safe enough to truly open up.
Asian Mental Health: Understanding the Experiences of Asian Canadians in Therapy
Asian Canadians often navigate unique experiences related to culture, family expectations, identity, and emotional wellbeing. In this podcast conversation, Harry Au discusses Asian mental health, therapy, and the challenges many Asians in the diaspora face when seeking support
Therapy for Asian Canadians: Understanding Identity, Family, and Emotional Wellbeing
Many Asian Canadians struggle to find a therapist who understands the cultural experiences that shape their mental health. In this podcast conversation, I discuss therapy for Asian diaspora communities, including identity, family expectations, emotional expression, and the challenges many Asian Canadians face when seeking support.
Welcome to Therapy with harry: Mental Health for Asian Canadians
Welcome to Harry Au Therapy—supporting Asian Canadians navigating anxiety, trauma, and identity.