ASIAN MENTAL HEALTH BLOG
Writing on Asian identity, family dynamics, and the work of becoming yourself.
Honest, specific, and written for 1.5 and 2nd generation Asian immigrants who are done with generic advice.
I write about the things my clients bring into sessions. The guilt that surfaces when you try to want something different. The anger that has been building for years without a name. The family dynamics that shaped you before you knew they were shaping you.
The topics are specific because the experiences are specific. If you have ever felt like mainstream mental health content was not really written for you, you are probably right. This is.
Why You Can’t Rest: How Trauma, Productivity, and the Model Minority Myth Keep You in a Constant State of Doing
Rest can feel uncomfortable or even impossible when your self worth has been shaped by productivity and achievement. This article explores how trauma, family expectations, and the model minority myth create chronic overdoing, and how learning to rest requires unlearning shame, urgency, and emotional avoidance.