ASIAN MENTAL HEALTH BLOG
Writing on Asian identity, family dynamics, and the work of becoming yourself.
Honest, specific, and written for 1.5 and 2nd generation Asian immigrants who are done with generic advice.
I write about the things my clients bring into sessions. The guilt that surfaces when you try to want something different. The anger that has been building for years without a name. The family dynamics that shaped you before you knew they were shaping you.
The topics are specific because the experiences are specific. If you have ever felt like mainstream mental health content was not really written for you, you are probably right. This is.
What Sports Reveal About Your Psychology: Ego, Codependency, and Fear of Failure in Performance
Sports often reveal psychological patterns we do not notice in daily life. This article explores how fear of being selfish, codependent tendencies, and avoidance of failure can show up in competitive play and reflect deeper relational patterns.
How to Rewire Your Inner Critic (Reparenting After Childhood Trauma)
If your inner voice is harsh, critical, or never satisfied, it may have been shaped by childhood experiences you didn’t choose. This article breaks down how trauma influences your inner critic and how reparenting can help you build a more supportive and grounded relationship with yourself.
Healing from Trauma: Why Your Life Is Not wasted and You Are Entering Your “Second Prime”
Healing from trauma often comes with grief for lost time, missed opportunities, and versions of life that never happened. This article reframes that experience by exploring how recovery is not a return to a “first prime,” but the beginning of a new developmental stage where agency, self-awareness, and emotional clarity deepen over time. It covers how grief, inner child healing, and intentional self-care practices can help rebuild a sense of meaning and forward momentum. The focus is on reclaiming the present while integrating the past without being defined by it.