ASIAN MENTAL HEALTH BLOG
Writing on Asian identity, family dynamics, and the work of becoming yourself.
Honest, specific, and written for 1.5 and 2nd generation Asian immigrants who are done with generic advice.
I write about the things my clients bring into sessions. The guilt that surfaces when you try to want something different. The anger that has been building for years without a name. The family dynamics that shaped you before you knew they were shaping you.
The topics are specific because the experiences are specific. If you have ever felt like mainstream mental health content was not really written for you, you are probably right. This is.
Fear of Abandonment and Rejection: Why It Feels So Intense (and What to Do About It)
Fear of rejection and abandonment can feel overwhelming—but it’s not a flaw. This article explains the evolutionary and psychological roots of these fears, and how to start regulating them in your daily life.
What Sports Reveal About Your Psychology: Ego, Codependency, and Fear of Failure in Performance
Sports often reveal psychological patterns we do not notice in daily life. This article explores how fear of being selfish, codependent tendencies, and avoidance of failure can show up in competitive play and reflect deeper relational patterns.
How to Improve Seasonal Affective Disorder Symptoms at Home: 5 Sensory and Environmental Strategies
Seasonal changes can impact mood, energy, and emotional regulation in ways that feel difficult to control. This article explores five practical, sensory based strategies to create a home environment that supports emotional stability and comfort during darker months.